With Rob traveling to California and back every week, I've found myself in this weird emotional place where I count down the days until the weekend but then simultaneously panic over how few weekends we have left as residents of Charlotte (spoiler alert: there are only 7 of them).

Other than planning next week's trip out there to visit, the other thing that's been really fun and kind of distracting-but-productive has been mapping out our move-to-the-West-Coast road trip. Since we have Ender and don't want to put him on a plane, we decided to drive from North Carolina to California in September. I've done the drive from Virginia to Minnesota and back again with Rob when we moved to Charlotte, so we decided to skip the northern states and do a southern tour of the country. At first we had talked about going through Tennessee and then to Austin, Texas before pushing through to new Mexico, Arizona, and finally getting to Silicon Valley by way of Los Angeles. But then we changed our mind! So now our route looks like this (we're using Furkot to map out all the stops and it's pretty badass and super easy to use):

• Nashville, Tennessee
• New Orleans, Louisiana
• Dallas, Texas
• Denver, Colorado
• Salt Lake City, Utah
• Reno, Nevada
• San Francisco, California

This route gets us to a bunch of cities that are new to us, and I think by skipping New Mexico and Arizona, we'll have a greater variety on the road.

We've never planned a big road trip like this, so it's a lot to figure out, and then you add in the element of traveling with a dog and it seems a little overwhelming at times--we're taking six nights to get out there so we don't have to drive more than 8 hours a day. We'll stop every 3-4 hours for Ender to have a walk and a potty break, but other than that I'm not really sure what to do to make the trip easier on him! He rides in his crate because he gets super overstimulated otherwise, so we decided to just keep doing that since it's what he's used to. We're just planning to make lots of stops and maybe even seek out a dog park or two along the way.

So far in our time with Ender, I think this trip will be the biggest challenge. Being on the road for days can be stressful enough, but add an energetic, 50-pound dog and we're going to have to get creative! I'd love to hear any of your recommendations for great places to eat/things to see in all the cities we're stopping! We've got pet-friendly hotels down but are now on the hunt for great coffee shops and restaurants, this time with dog-friendly patios or easy take-out options. I'd also love to hear any advice from people who have taken long trips with their pets!

I don't feel ready to move quite yet, but I do feel like a cross-country road trip is kind of a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and I'm so excited to be doing it with my tiny little family. Ender doesn't even know yet!

After a few requests, I'm finally getting around to this blog post! Rob and I use Airbnb a lot when we travel, and I've had some questions about how we pick the right place for us.

I totally understand that staying in a stranger's house can feel totally weird, especially if you're used to staying in hotels, but I've found that a few things help me feel really comfortable with it, and a lot of the time I actually prefer an Airbnb to a hotel. But that was not always the case--our first Airbnb experience was not a good one, and it ended with me driving from Asheville back to Charlotte in the middle of the night. There was nothing wrong with the property we chose, and looking back I know that it all went to hell because of my personal preferences. So keep that in mind when you're traveling--what makes you feel at home? How far outside your comfort zone are you willing to go? 

1. Use a Superhost. This is the easiest way to know that you're going to stay at a great place hosted by a great person with a lot of experience and good reviews. We picked one for our condo in Miami in February and we could really tell the difference.
2. Plan ahead. We kind of forgot about our Asheville trip until the last minute so our options for places to stay were limited, and we ended up in what was quite literally a cabin in the woods. No one was there to greet us and we were 20 minutes from town. We also arrived at night so it was already dark and I had just sort of lost my bearings. If you know me at all then you know that none of that is within my comfort zone.
3. Speaking of which, keep your comfort zone in mind when searching. Do you want a place to yourself or would you rather rent a room from someone who will probably be home? Surprisingly enough I've found that I prefer to either rent a room or maybe a guest house and have the hosts actually on the property. But if you feel weird about sleeping under the same roof as a stranger, then you probably want to rent the whole house/apartment.
4. Pick a place that's conveniently located. Pretty simple advice, but it can be hard to pick a neighborhood when you're visiting a really big city. Our San Francisco trip last summer was kind of difficult because we wanted to go everywhere. We ended up staying near The Castro District so we could walk around there, and then we Ubered everywhere else before staying with a friend in Japantown for a few more days after we checked out of the Airbnb. It worked out pretty well. 
5. Use Google to check out the area. The location might be good but you want to make sure you like the neighborhood's vibe, especially if you're Instagram-obsessed like I am (embarrasing but true). Google Street View is really helpful for this, and make sure to check out the map and make sure there are some things around the Airbnb--coffee shops, dinner spots, maybe a little market--it's up to you to decide what's important to you but we always love having a few options nearby that we can walk to.

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Some of my favorite places we've stayed (I can update this list after future trips):

California:

• Scenic Neighborhood Garden Cottage in Santa Rosa
• The Loft in Downtown Healdsburg (seriously one of the most gorgeous apartments I've ever been in)

Florida:

• Midtown Miami Guest Suite

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Last week, Rob and I made a quick little one-night getaway to Charleston. I hadn't been in years, but always remember loving it, so it was really nice to just escape in the middle of the week (Rob is starting a new job today so he took all of last week off and then I kind of did, too). He had a meeting on Wednesday afternoon so we planned around that, and we were on our way back home 24 hours after we had arrived, but I think we fit plenty of good food and dreamy walks down King Street in.

Here's a list of all the places we went while we were in town--most of them came from recommendations on my friend Annie's blog, Annie Reeves:

• House rosé and oysters for lunch at 167 Raw. Seriously delicious. Also if you're ever there please get the chips and guacamole--it was amazing. We also ordered ceviche and it was perfect.
• We stayed at The Restoration and did happy hour at The Watch, their rooftop bar. The hushpuppies with pimento cheese and pepper jelly were our favorite. 
• Walked down King Street and stopped for dinner at The Darling Oyster Bar which was, you guessed it, darling. More oysters and some truly fantastic cocktails. We got more hushpuppies and they weren't my favorite but the king crab parfait was glorious.
• I was on a roll after dinner and had to stop for ice cream at Jeni's, which I didn't realize was a chain because it felt so quirky and independent inside. I got a scoop of wild berry lavender and one of honey pistachio and they're both my new favorite.
• Ate breakfast in bed at the hotel before heading out for coffee at Black Tap--Rob got a regular cold brew and I ordered their coffee cocktail which was cold brew, mint, and honey shaken in a cocktail shaker. Definitely worth a try.
• Lunch before heading home was at Blossom, and the food was great but I probably wouldn't go back. It had kind of a stuffy vibe and everything was really expensive (I ate a $20 salad). But the menu looked good and Rob was jonesing for a lobster roll.

I always miss Ender so much when we're gone, but it was really awesome to get away for just one night, especially since Charleston is only three hours from Charlotte. I'm already planning a few more short trips for the summer! Where do you want to go next?